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Teen Advice
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Sex |
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May 10, 2008 |
| anonymous asks: |
ok so, im freaking out. me and my boyfriend havent had sex, but his penis has touched my vagina. i heard that you can still get pregnant from that. he's done it more than once, and i still got my period after it. but he did it recently, and i dont get my eriod for another like 3 or 4 weeks, and i dont want to sit and worry for that long. i just want to know the possibility of me getting pregnant. |
| hollistercutie4 says: |
There's no way to know the real possibility of you getting pregnant from that, just know that there is a possibility and thats enough that he should be wearing a condom. You would not want to get pregnant that way! He would have to put his condom actually on you where the entrance to the vagina is (where its pink) and not on top where theres hair. The reason you could get pregnant from this is that if a guy is aroused, precum will come out of his penis. It's possible for precum to contain sperm. Have him rub on the outside as much as you feel comfortable with, but to make yourself feel more comfortable... have him wear a condom. (Or get on birth control!) :-) |
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| Topic: |
Sex |
| Date: |
May 09, 2008 |
| loves_gerbils88 asks: |
So I just started dating this new guy about a month ago and he's amazing. He's really easy to be around and talk to and I love spending time with him. The reason I'm asking for advice is because I'm 19 and a virgin...but whenever I'm alone with him I find myself dealing with all of this pent up sexual energy. Last night we were in my room making out and it was going great, and I really wanted him to touch me so I put his hand on my breast--but he stopped and told me that while he was having a lot of fun with me, he didn't think it should go any farther than this for now. I was fine with that, but I just don't understand why--after all of these years of being a "good girl" and doing fine without having sex with any of my other boyfriends--I suddenly have this huge urge to have sex. And I think he's not a virgin, but I'm not 100% sure. Could the reason that he wanted to slow down be that he wants more of an emotional connection with me than a physical one? And am I messing things up with us by possibly moving too fast with him?
He said that he was fine last night and having fun, but I can't help but obsess over it and wonder if I did something wrong.
Also, I guess I seem to give off this vibe as a reserved innocent girl...but whenever we get to making out and everything, he's told me that I'm tricky, because I come off as being innocent but really I'm a "sex kitten". I really am a virgin, but I haven't told him this because it hasn't really come up yet...I'm so confused; any advice would be so helpful. |
| hollistercutie4 says: |
First of all, you guys have been dating for about a month. You should have had the "sex" talk a long time ago. Especially before you started fooling around. You need to talk to him and tell him you are a virgin and ask if he is or not. Tell him your feelings on the situation first (as honestly as you can) and that will make him more likely to share his feelings as well. There has got to be some reason he is holding back, and it's not fair of him to not tell you exactly what it is. Communicate, and all your problems will be solved :-) |
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General |
| Date: |
May 08, 2008 |
| anon asks: |
i am a straight 16 year old male and for some reason all the girls i know seem to think that i am either gay or a perverted creep. i have no idea why because i dont act like i am either but from a first impression they always think im either gay or creepy. if i try to tell them im not or convince them im not they then think im the other or just dont beleive me. it sounds stupid and i dont understand it myself. it didnt bother me when it was just a couple of people but now that its every girl i know it does. it makes it impossible for me to get a girlfriend and im not good looking so that was hard in the first place. any ideas on what i should do? |
| crewbie says: |
Well, I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume you do have friends. Ask them why people think that. Something about your appearance or your demeanor is conveying this image. FInd out what it is, then change it. |
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